01.20.23

This post is a collection of my Instagram post captions in one place. Detailing our experiences, planning, vendors, brands and everything in-between.

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Feb. 1, 2023 – post about the day

Coming out of yet another social media detox, the first post of 2023 had to beā€¦ THIS. Thereā€™s definitely going to be a wedding spam of tags, shout-outs and details very soon, but for now – just leaving this here. Pure happiness marrying my best friend and the love of my life in a room full of incredible people šŸ–¤ 1.20.23 couldnā€™t have been more perfect.

šŸ“ø @kellyseaimages

Feb. 11, 2023 – post about our team

Itā€™s wedding photo spam week!Ā Iā€™ll share my ideas, timelines, memories day by day, but firstā€¦ letā€™s have a moment for the details. And a moment for our team. The only time I was a bridezilla – was during the process of finding the amazing people to work with – I had a vision, was insanely selective, and let me tell you – every person / business tagged below is a rockstar. Looking back at our wedding, thereā€™s not a single sentence I would start with ā€œI wish Iā€¦ā€ – it was perfect. So – brides to be – hereā€™s your guide to incredible people to partner with for your wedding – message them directly, tell them I said hi.

VENUE ā€¢ FOOD ā€¢ DRINKS ā€¢ CAKE ā€¢ COORDINATOR ā€¢ @maritimeparc

PHOTO ā€¢ @kellyseaimages

VIDEO ā€¢ @vargasvideography

FLOWERS ā€¢ @karmaflowers

DJ ā€¢ @itsdjvice

PHOTO BOOTH ā€¢ @fluxphotoboothco

HAIR MAKEUP ā€¢ @danielarodriguezbridalbeauty

Feb. 12, 2023 – post about the day

3 shots of zzzquil, breathing exercises and 7 hours later – 1.20 started at 7am (not for the boys of courseā€¦) at Hyatt House in JC. I donā€™t understand cool calm and collected bridesā€¦how!? I was shaking from stress. Had 1 french fry for breakfast. Prosecco from cheap-y plastic glasses I panic-ordered to deliver to the hotel room the night before didnā€™t help. Having my amazing duo mom + aunt and 6 of the most incredible friends a girl can dream of, in the room, did.

Also, confidence in our stylists fromĀ @beautyiconnycĀ – DanielaĀ @danielarodriguezbridalbeautyĀ and Alex work their magic helped. And of course, full confidence inĀ @kellyseaimagesĀ coming in and capturing a pastel dream. Black and white, minimalist, simple but chic, understated but memorable – themes for our wedding and we started right from the hotel room. How amazing did everyone lookā€¦ I mean – wowā€¦

And dear future brides – you will 99.9% chance NOT be casually hanging out in your cute feathery robes enjoying champagne laughing with your mouth wide open (how I did in almost every photo) – that moment you see in this post lasts a total of 3.5 seconds and gets caught in a tornado of activities around you. So my hot tip: if you do get that break from reality before the serious things start, take a mental picture as well šŸ¤šŸ–¤

This post will come up in ā€œmemoriesā€ years down the line, so a memory I would capture (and one I maybe shouldnā€™t) is how we fished out those ā€œglassesā€ out of garbage cans around the room (because this would now be our 3rd prosecco before 2pm) just to get that fun second photo andā€¦I still drank it. This is a judgement-free zoneā€¦right!? Another memory is how we walked out and almost got into the elevatorsā€¦without the dresses. That was fun too.

Feb. 16, 2023 – post about our parties

A post for our ride-or-dies, our stylish squad, our ā€œcanā€™t believe we once did thatā€ crew, our ladies and gentlemen in total black šŸ–¤

My vision for the bridal party was a mission impossible: chic but comfortable. The girls got to pick their own dresses, as long as it was a black maxi – fashion sustainability coming through – everyone can re-wear their gowns to any formal event in the future! The boys got an even easier job: black suit, white shirt, white sneakers and a strong veto on bowties, ties or vests. And if that seems confusing for a wedding – my inspiration was Ryan Gosling and he can do no wrong. But how amazing did everyone look!? Seriously – wow.

I also must say – this group of girls for me is family: weā€™ve each been friends for 10+ years – insane to wrap my mind around (@hildekristine_ I think we celebrate our 10th anniversary this year sometime around the day I ā€œstoleā€ your / not your jacket). You were a huge part of making this day what it was and I don’t know what Iā€™d do without you šŸ¤

Feb. 25, 2023 – post about the dresses

And a moment for HER: the first dress byĀ @millanova

Since we got engaged, I had a dilemma – I needed the dress to be sustainable, while the whole concept of ā€œa wedding dressā€ is basically the opposite. So the options were: ethical brands, Ukrainian brands, vintage… 2 months later, the war started and I had my answer.Ā #MillaNovaĀ is a Ukrainian wedding dress / evening gown brand sold in NYC – at the start of 2022, the brand was producing ā€œattire for the country’s soldiers and medical workersā€. Decision made. I went in for an appointment atĀ @vierobridal_newyorkĀ working with the amazingĀ @zhako131Ā – tried on half the inventory and picked IRINA. Which – fun fact – is basically translucent. We had to sew 3 additional layers of nude mesh to make it slightly less scandalous.

This was 1000% my dress – zero regrets šŸ¤

March 10, 2023 – post about the reception

Almost 2 months later and almost done with my wedding spam spree – let me paint you a picture in 5 bullets:

  • Our first dance was a combo of a special personal song and a TikTok dance because we think weā€™re young.
  • My second dress was also byĀ @millanovaĀ called Gigi.
  • We donā€™t know how to cut a cake.
  • Open bars are a dangerous game.
  • 6 fire trucks pulled up to our venue – reacting to a boat alarm in the marina.